Many times Beta Males complain about girls’ choices in Men. Beta Males say, “She says that she wants an understanding, kind, sweet, attentive guy. I meet all of these requirements. Why does she not notice me and always go out with those jerks?” Girls have a large disconnect between what they say they want and what they act on.
Girls have this disconnect because every girl has 2 brains. They have a front brain and a hindbrain. The front brain represents a girl’s conscious thoughts and speech. The hindbrain represents a girl’s subconscious thoughts. Which one wins? That’s right the hindbrain.
To link up the desires of the hindbrain and the front brain every girl has a small hamster imbedded in her brain between her front brain and her hindbrain. When the hindbrain wants something the hamster gets on his hamster wheel and spins up a rationalization that the front brain accepts. Knowledge of the Rationalization Hamster explains the large disconnect between a girl’s words and actions.
Alpha Males know how to use the Rationalization Hamster to their personal advantage. When an Alpha Male knows that a girl feels attracted to him, he will give the hamster a chance to spin. An Alpha Male will invite the girl over on Friday Night to: meet his cats, view his library, view his garden, go watch the sunset, etc. The point of all of these activities is to put an Alpha Male and the girl in a sexually intense situation without saying, “Hey come over and let’s fool around on Friday.”
The hindbrain says, “Oh, yeah let’s get with Mr. Alpha.” The hamster then gets on his wheel and spins up a rationalization for the front brain. The girl then speaks, “Yeah I would love to spend Friday Night looking at all of Mr. Alpha’s great books. I love to read.” The hamster did his job well.
The Rationalization Hamster works to kill Beta Males’ opportunities with girls. When Mr. Niceguy Beta Male asks a girl to go to dinner on Friday, the hindbrain says, “No Way!” The hamster then gets on his wheel and spins up a rationalization for the front brain. The girl then says, “I would love to go to that great French Bistro, which you offered to pay for, but I can’t. My third cousin is coming in from out of town and we have never met and she may want to meet me and I have this great movie that I want to watch and I have to wash my hair. . .” Again, the hamster did his job well.
The Rationalization Hamster can be a man’s best friend or his worst enemy. Men need to always tailor their actions to the desires of a female hindbrain. This is why Alpha Males get so many chances in life and can get away with bad behavior. The female hindbrain likes Bad Boy Alphas and will use the Rationalization Hamster to excuse their bad behaviors.
The female hindbrain fells no attraction to Beta males and does not want to get into sexual situations with Beta Males. This is why Beta Males get no second or third chances with girls. The hindbrain already rejected Mr. Niceguy Beta Male and as soon as the hindbrain finds a shortcoming the hamster gets on his wheel and spins up a rejection for Mr. Niceguy Beta. Mr. Niceguy Beta never had a chance.
Men, when a girl feels attracted to you, use the Rationalization Hamster to your benefit. Ask girls to put themselves in sexual situations with you that also have cover. Things like, “Come over and meet my cats,” work great because you offer for her to come over while making sure to keep all focus far away from sexual meaning. The hindbrain will immediately recognize your offer and will get the hamster to spin up a rationalization using the cover subject.
Betas, know that until you win over the hindbrain, all of your nice guy offers have 0% chance of success. Betas, make yourselves more desirable to the female hindbrain so that the hamster does not destroy your chances for dating success.
